Rather than wandering in abstraction in finding exclusive,immaculate feeling of that elusive feeling/bonding .People succeed ,who adhere to more practical and definite route in get social traction rather than immersing in that isolation with hunting to capture that evading bonding that only as if belongs to be ethereal. May be real in that sphere but not pervasive,hidden beyond search in this Earth and its habitats.
Mutually supportive alliances are product of dependence of humankind therefore finds partners and recognizes each/other vulnerabilities/hobbies ,recreations and with aim to form profound feeling of belonging and that supportive stuff that permeates in one even at its wildest excursions.
Things change at each moment . Necessity/demand/requirement vary constantly and one cant stink to particular burden rather can carry some fragrance ,which impels to excel in each moment to create somewhat life of regularity/permanence.
A support system that is real and based on practical consideration yields far better results otherwise many adventures in those mighty isolation has failed miserably in that isolation ,where where the end of stories hardly comes out and depart grounded with them.
Supports that comes from helping group of hands to which one belongs forms /merge ones identity for mutual individual benefits,pursuing unrealistic idealism in vacuum leads noway.